Dating Tips and Relationship Advice
Are Same - Sex Hook - ups Cheating?Deb ' s engaged but still wants to experiment. Cathi and Dan advise. by Cathi Hanauer & Dan Jones Problem: I right got engaged to my boyfriend of two senility, and I stroke regretful that I never had a sexual empiricism with a womaneven though Im pretty factual Im straight. Is it too late for me to inquire into this fantasy?
Vanessa, 29 Her Take: Hunt for yourself why you feel regretful. Is it as you image that saying I do will limit what you can do? Or is it because youre not really sure youre straight? Both answers are worth contemplating, but the latter is a definite concern. If lesbian sex is something you crave, find out now. ( If you realize you do, think hard about whether youre ready to get married. Id say not. ) Or, is there any chance you could tell your fiance about this fantasy?Part of a good marriage is exploring at least some of your sexual fantasies with your spouse and lots of guys might actually like the idea of you being with a woman, especially if they could somehow be involved ( even if its just watching ). Either way, its better to potentially explore this with his blessing than behind his back. |
